How often do you remember or take the time to tell people how much you admire, appreciate, or like them? I bet not often enough. There are several reasons why we do not vocalize to others our positive feelings or thoughts towards them. Some excuses could be, "They already know what I am going to say. or "I'm too embarrassed to say anything." However, when you ask the individual if he/she enjoys compliments, the answer is normally, "Yes, I love them." Telling someone that you admire, appreciate, or like something about them is what is called a "random act of kindness." It takes almost no effort and yet it pays enormous dividends- you boost your self esteem and the self confidence of others. Many people spend an entire lifetime hoping, praying, and wishing that other people would acknowledge them. Let's impact the world together by offering compliments and positive feedback to people. It feels so good to be offering a gesture of loving-kindness to others.
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Reference: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff... and it's all small stuff by Richard Carlson PH.D.
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